Sadie's  Columns: the Art of BDSM

 

 

 

 

 

Relationship Series about Sadie's Dominants
Most Recent on Top (These lag a little bit time wise)

 

Liam: A Butterfly's Kiss
January - March, 2009

A Story about How the Heart Makes a Mockery of the Best Laid Plans

A Tale of Two Novice Dominants Applying for the Job of Dominant Level II

"I Love You, I’ll Wait For You, Come Back" and other Statements of Faith in an Unsure World

Master Xavier: a Brilliant Mind

January 2006 - December 2006 on & off

Photos of Xavier

An Ode to Master Xavier (and tell him not to get a swelled head over it either) (August, 2006)

The Spiritual Blow Job (No Really!) (September, 2006)

NEWSFLASH! Sadie Swallows for the Very First Time… plus after the break: discussion about the challenge of long-term relationships in the BDSM scene (September, 2006)

A Foray into Mind Play and How I Survived my first Panicky Moment (September, 2006)

A Fork in the Road: Taking the Deeper Road or Sticking with the Light and Breezy (October, 2006)

 

A Plethora of Big Beautiful Babes; Answering the question of why are there so many fat women in the BDSM scene? (Article where I mentioned him)

 

Alejandro: Prospecting for Pleasures along the Canadian Border:

June 2006 - September 2007

Photos of Alejandro

My Promise to Alejandro  (June 2006)

That Old Monogamy Commitment Fandangle    (June 2006)

Caging my Submissive Spirit    (June 2006)

The Perils of Transparency    (July 2006)

A Very Short Love Affair  (July 2006)

They say you should never sleep with your friends  (July 2006)

An Ode to Master Xavier (and tell him not to get a swelled head over it either)  (August 2006)

When Do Broken Hearts Heal? Not Soon Enough, If You Ask Me (September 2007) Part of the Alejandro Series

 

My Travels with Griffin

January 2003 - February 2004

My Letter to Santa
Interview with Griffin, Facilitator trained in Native American Ceremonies and Spiritual Dowser
My Travels with Griffin: Getting on the "Spirchul" Train (January 2003)
Surfing the Whole Body Orgasm (February 2003)
Is it Spiritual or is it Subspace? …Six Months of Spelunking with Griffin (June 2003)
Commitment and a Catawampus (July 2003)
Arousal and the Doors of Perception (August 2003)
Total Surrender (September 2003)

Sadie has a Meltdown (October 2003)
Love, BDSM Style (November 2003)
A Shift in the Wind (December 2003)
Our First Anniversary: What we're Celebrating and What we're Not (December 2003)
On Hiatus from BDSM (January 2004)
Griffin put his Hand on my Heart, but how Long Can I Keep my Promise? (February 2004)
A Love Letter to Griffin (February 2004)

 

Travels After Griffin (2004)

A Devil in the Hot Tub

An Angel in the Hot Tub

Dazed and Confused in the Land of Rebound; Does anyone actually have any real answers?
Hell Hath no Fury like a Submissive Scorned

"Aren't you over him yet, Sadie?" - Healing the Heart on the Slow Track

Last Stop on the Sadie Train: The Machinations of Taking a Break from BDSM

If I'd known that I'd never see you again; a Goodbye Letter to Griffin

 

House Mermaid - Diary of a Journalist Submissive (2003)

Interview with Dex, Master of House Mermaid
Interview with Barbie, Submissive Charge of House Mermaid
Exploring the Possibility of Formal Training as a Submissive
Why This?
The First Weekend
Dex and Me
My PolySomething Relationships
Cupid, Collars, And Commitment
Morphing Into The Group
Drunk on Chastity
Stepping Out
So then, what do you feel about all this?
It Ain't Entirely A Bowl of Cherries
Closure