Starting a BDSM Group
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Interested in Starting Your Own BDSM Group? Read these excellent articles & interview on the subject. 

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Leadership Discussion Groups

Alternate Lifestyle Leaders Alliance
We are a private list open to those in governing positions of groups, lists, and dungeons that serve the Alternative Lifestyles community. The A-L-L-A provides a forum where we can discuss all of the issues that we have to deal with as those who keep things running smoothly. One of our primary goals is the advancement of the lifestyle through better communications and the sharing of ideas between the different groups. This group is meant for those who desire the opportunity to work with other leaders to improve and advance the alternative lifestyle community. We do verify that new applicants are leaders, moderators, standing members on the leading councils of an established group, or are established party host prior to being allowed access to this list so please do not attempt to join if you are not a group leader.

To join, send an e-mail to:
A-L-L-A-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


 

Kink-Friendly Website Hosts


 


ChicagoNetTech Inc - hosts my website
The owner, Bruce Barnes, is a member of our leather community and a staunch advocate of free speech. He has been a great personal and technical support as I've gone through the often messy process of moving my website over. I recommend him to anyone who needs a kink-friendly website host. 
bbarnes@ChicagoNetTech  
http://www.ChicagoNetTech.com  


DotEasy
http://www.doteasy.com/
Mistress Heart of San Francisco uses this ISP for her website. She says they're working out great.

Elevated Hosting
*Very inexpensive, e-mail support only. That's the tradeoff
http://www.elevatedhosting.com/

Rcysy Web Services
http://rcysy.com/
*Very inexpensive. Don't know anything else about them.

SlutBMe Design
A professional website that can be maintained by anyone who can point a mouse and Click! Not only do you get a totally professional website, you can get extra features that usually cost thousands more,
http://slutbme.live-to-love.com/
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Sadie's Articles on Leading a BDSM Group
The Trials and Tribulations… and Joys, of Running Rose & Thorn of Vermont. (And Tips on How To Start Your Own Group!)

How to Screen Guests for a BDSM Organization

 

Other Articles

How to Host a Munch
By shadow

Terminology
Why Would Newbies Wanna Come to a Munch?
Location & Frequency
Naming and Marking the Beastie
Who Can I Expect to Attend?
So, What Will We Do?
Getting the Word Out: Part 1
Getting the Word Out: Part 2
Getting the Word Out: Part 3
This is Not a Play Party
Any Last Thoughts Before Liftoff


Starting a BDSM Group - A Three Part Series
By XMentor

Part I: Why are groups formed (i.e., what are the needs of group members)?

Part II: What things can threaten a group?

Part III: How can groups accommodate member needs and minimize threats?

 

How to Start a Fetish Support Group
By Laura Goodwin, Leader of United Leatherfolk of Connecticut
http://www.lauragoodwin.org/group.htm 

How to Start a BDSM Discussion Club
By Craftman
http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/socorg.html 

How to Start a Munch
By Mistress Ren, Leader of CUFSmaine
http://www.cufsmaine.org/howtorun.htm 

Ed's Series: Group Therapy (this page includes the SCENEprofiles interview & his articles)
By Ed, Leader of White Mountains Different Strokes
http://www.epedominion.com/Library/ed,_the_czar.htm
 

How to Start Your Own S&M Support Group!
By Nancy Ava Miller, M.Ed., Founder of PEP—People Exchanging Power

Organizing and Operating a Leather Group  
Published by Black Rose
http://www.br.org/group.html
 

 

Interviews with BDSM Group Leaders
(Listed Alphabetically)

"A" and "Gee", Co-Leaders of Charlotte Lovers of All Kink (CLOAK) of North Carolina

Angel, Owner and moderator of the Sisters in Submission group

Lord Battista, Webmaster of Erotic Power Exchange Dominion and on the Board of the Albany Kink & Party Group 

Lord Bear, Founder & Leader of
The North Conway, New Hampshire Munch 

Ms. Binder, Co-Founder of The Power Exchange at SUNY, Albany 

Demona, Co-Founder North Country Munch & 24 7 Ds Lifestyles Groups, and Total Power Exchange slave

Ed (AKA The Czar), Leader of White Mountains Different Strokes 

HizAngel, Leader of D/s New Hampshire 

Lord Esox, Leader & Moderator of The Vermont Society of Kink 

Laura Goodwin, Leader of United Leatherfolk of Connecticut (ULC) 

Mayafire, Co-Leader of the Albany Power Exchange (APeX) 

Mastersweetie, Founder of Albany Stocks & Bonds (ASB)

Sa'Kinah, Leader of Alternative Lifestyles of Maine (ALU) & Practitioner of the Gorean Lifestyle

Sir Ron, Co-Leader of the
Albany Power Exchange (APeX) 

Sir Victor, Leader of DomSubFriends of New York City