The Rose & Thorn Weekly Newz 2001 Archives

 

 

 

 

 

JUST TWO WEEKS until our December 15th Holiday Party! Our demo features Eric, of the Northern Maine Kinksters, and Mistress Ren, leader of CUFSmaine, demonstrating suspension bondage! We'll also be having a BDSM gift swap. Details in Events section.

 

"My Dom must be superior in his mind and heart; he must not be afraid of me even deep down where he thinks I cannot see."

~ Submissive Sadie

 

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THE ROSE & THORN WEEKLY NEWZ

Sunday, December 2nd 2001

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FEATURED ARTICLES IN THIS STEAMING ISSUE:

Tea Anyone? - An invitation from Jonathan, a former R&T Core Group Member

Wicked Weekend! - An Invitation For A BDSM Weekend In New Hampshire

Request for columnists from Domsub magazine website

Trysts with "X" - Poem by Flirt/Flirticia

Best BDSM Books For Your Holiday Shopping Pleasure and Pain

EVENTS NEAR AND SEMI-NEAR

Rose & Thorn Upcoming Events

The Regional Events & Announcements Listing

ADMINISTRIVIA

Request Copies Of Our Most Popular Articles!

How To Get Off Or On The Mailing List, Newsletter Policy etc.

 

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TEA ANYONE?

By Jonathan, a former R&T Core Group Member

jhstevens@adelphia.net

I will be having a few smaller gatherings, i.e. 8-14 people, to explore some other aspects of D/s. The more dramatic aspects of D/s such as bondage and flogging, receive much well deserved attention at Rose & Thorn gatherings. What receives less attention is the subtle ways in which D/s can, and does express itself in the ordinary rituals of human interaction. Serving tea is neither an inherently Dominant act, nor submissive act. The "D/s" is in the presentation of the server. Doms seek to be in control. Subs seek to be pleasing. Join me for a delightful evening of socializing. You will have the opportunity to experience side by side Dominant tea service, and submissive tea service.

After tea, there will be a dance. Partner dancing is an expression of Dominance and submission that is widely practiced even among vanillas. It is VERY easy. I will teach Doms who have always avoided the dance floor how to lead with confidence and poise. And subs who are unsure, I will show you how to follow with grace and charm. I know what its like to feel unsure on the dance floor. You may not be ready for the international ballroom dancing championship, but you won't ever feel embarrassed again in this ritual of Dominance and submission.

This will be a couples only event. This means you must come with a Dom/sub who will be your partner for the evening [they do not need to be your dating/romantic partner - a friend is fine]. If anyone is interested, but has no one to accompany them, please let me know and I will try to put you in touch with a companion.

If you are interested please email me at jhstevens@adelphia.net

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WICKED WEEKEND! - AN INVITATION FOR A BDSM WEEKEND IN NEW HAMPSHIRE

www.geocities.com/aluorg

By angel at free_angel@hotmail.com and sakinah at sa_kinah@hotmail.com

You asked for it, you got it! An overnight getaway is on here in New England and you're invited to come and join the wicked fun! This is a weekend of fun for those who wish to enjoy the company of others in alternative lifestyles. AYUH, the focus is on fun, food, and fetish!

This fun filled weekend will be held on February 23-24, 2002 from 1 PM to 1 PM in the foothills of New Hampshire. (specifics will be given to paid guests one week before the event)Wicked Weekend will be arriving just in time to ward off those winter blues.

The equipment will be provided by Lock, Stock and Bondage and ALUR INC. Standard dungeon equipment like St. Andrews cross, racks, spanking benches, and stocks will be available. All you need to have fun is your toy bag and a deep desire to be completely surrounded by kinky people! There will be dungeon monitors available to help make your personal play area as enjoyable for you as possible.

This is a perfect holiday gift idea for that kinky person on your list. The fee is $75.00 per person. We will supply dinner, a buffet of snacks throughout the evening, breakfast the next morning, and a toy filled dungeon in a spacious, clean, and kink friendly lodging facility. What more could you ask for? Sign up now because space is limited. This is the first of many weekend retreats ALUR, Inc will be putting on. Join us as we celebrate our premiere Wicked Weekend.

Payment can be made either with a money order sent to ALUR P.O. Box 8012 Lewiston, Maine 04243-8012 or through Paypal Please send money to ALURofMaine@hotmail.com (When sending payment in please be sure to specify a valid email address or way we can contact you.) There is a short and simple registration form that must be filled out before you can enter the Wicked Weekend.

The retreat site is handicap accessible. Please be sure to inform us if you have any special needs so we may accommodate you in any way we possibly can.

Information can be found at www.geocities.com/aluorg Specific questions can be directed to angel at free_angel@hotmail.com or sakinah at sa_kinah@hotmail.com

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BDSM WRITESRS AND PHOTOGRAPHERS WANTED FOR DOM'S VIEW WEBSITE

By Kayla

kaylakuffs@yahoo.ca **NOTE that extension is .ca NOT .com

www.domsview.com

We are scouting for Dom/mes and Switches (when in Top mode) who would like to submit Articles, Essays, How To's, D/s Humor, Poetry, and Erotica, written by Doms or Switches about the BDSM lifestyle. We are also looking for BDSM Art and amateur BDSM photography.

There is no payment for your accepted submissions at this time but the following benefits are offered:

Link to your website, bio, personal ad, archives for previously published work on Dom's View.

Guidelines for submitting your work are as follows:

Fiction/Non Fiction - A very short story or article, less than 2000 words, may be sent by pasting it into an e-mail message. For all other stories, send an inquiry e-mail first. Include the title, a short synopsis, and the first three to five paragraphs. Please include the ending in the synopsis. Send written work to: kaylakuffs@yahoo.ca **NOTE THAT'S .ca NOT .com

Art - The best way to submit art is by mailing us a URL where the art is at, if the art is already on the net. Art may also be sent by attachment, if it is in jpg or gif format. Please send no more than three pieces, all attached to different e-mail messages. Be certain the title of the piece is in the body of the e-mail. If you wish us to consider more than three pieces, please send only three, and indicate in the last e-mail message that others are available. Send art to webmiss@domsview.com

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Trysts with "X"

Poem by Flirt/Flirticia

bevb01@msn.com

Encounters with a stranger,

Is there any danger?

Chills!

Thrills! Behold the dance of Wills!

Not,,, it’s not the Minuet,

As intricate, but better yet!

Trials!

Wiles!

Trying not to lose our smiles!

Dancing comes to an end,

Resist?

Insist?

Temptations of the tryst!

Copyright 08/23/01

 

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BEST BDSM BOOKS FOR YOUR HOLIDAY SHOPPING PLEASURE

*These are all either recommended by our members, or are well known scene books. All of them are available on Amazon.com and are rated four stars or higher. Feel free to send me additions to the list.

Screw the Roses, Send Me The Thorns - The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism. Molly Devon, Phillip Miller, William Granzig

(Sadie's Favorite because it has great photos and humor too)

Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook

by Jay Wiseman (Paperback - May 2000)

Sm 101 : A Realistic Introduction

by Jay Wiseman (Paperback - December 1998)

The Loving Dominant

by John, Ph.D. Warren (Paperback - December 1997)

The Topping Book : Or, Getting Good at Being Bad

by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt (Paperback - December 1998)

The Bottoming Book: How to Get Terrible Things Done to You by Wonderful People

by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt

Different Loving : The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission

by Gloria G. Brame, et al (Paperback - January 1996)

Sensuous Magic: A Guide for Adventurous Couples

by Pat Califia (Paperback - January 1998)

When Someone You Love Is Kinky, by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt

We all know someone we would like to share this book with. It does a really good job of explaining kinkyness in general with sensitivity to vanilla folks, and is even a valuable read for kinky folks.

Mistress Ruby Ties It Together : A Dominatrix Take on Sex, Power, and the Secret Lives of Upstanding Citizens

by Robin Shamburg, Robin Schamburg (Paperback - February 2001)

S&M : Studies in Dominance & Submission

by Thomas S. Weinberg (Editor) (Paperback - July 1995)

 

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Here is the another list from : http://www.thesanctuary.net

BEGINNERS:

Come Hither: A Common Sense Guide to Kinky Sex – Gloria Brame **

- An excellent "first book". Includes a glossary of SM terms.

Learning the Ropes – Race Bannon **

Leather Handbook – First or Second Edition – Larry Townsend **

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns – Phillip Miller & Molly Devon **

The Bottoming Book: Or, How To Get Terrible Things Done To You by wonderful People

– Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Lizst **

Leather and Latex Care – Kelly Thibault **

The Lesbian S/M Safety Manual – Pat Colifia

The Sexually Dominant Woman: Workbook for Nervous Beginners – Lady reen ** The Topping Book: Or, Getting Good At Being Bad – Dossie Easton & Caterine A. Lizst **

Tes That Bind – Guy Baldwin **

To Love, To Obey, To Serve: Diary of an Old Guard slave – Viola Johnson **

- The best book available on submission.

INTERMEDIATE:

Ask Larry – Larry Townsend **

Diesel Fuel Passionate Poetry – Pat Califia **

Different Loving – Gloria & Will Brame & Jon Jacobs **

Doing It For Daddy – Pat Califia

Leatherfolk – Edited by Mark Thompson **

Leather Sex – Joseph Bean **

On The Safe Edge – Trevor Jacques **

Taming the Household Beast – Mistress Autumn Rose **

The Loving Dominant – John Warren

The Master’s Manual – Jack Rinella **

The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl’s Guide to Female Domination – Lorelei

ADVANCED:

Dhampir, Child of the Blood: A Vampyre’s Babybook – Viola Johnson **

Health Care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers

– Charles Moser, MD

Kaleidoscope: Sexual Healing and SM – Constance S. Slater **

Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual – Christine Abernathy **

S&M: Studies in Dominance and Submission – Thomas Weinberg **

SM Classics – Edited by Susan Wright

Urban Aboriginals – Edited by Geoff Mains

SKILLS:

A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting – Deborah Addington

Erotic Bondage Handbook – Jay Wiseman

Flogging – Joseph Bean **

How To Make Rope Restraints – Race Bannon

Kinky Crafts: 99 Do-It-Yourself S/M Toys – Edited by Lady Green

Knots Around the House – B. Neuman & T. Knight **

The Complete Spanker – Lady Green

Trust: Handbook of Fisting – Bert Herrman

FICTION: (Not to be confused with Reality)

Domina – Gloria Brame **

Mr. Benson – John Preston **

Murder At Roissy – John Warren

The Slave Market series – Laura Antoniou

The Story of O – Pauline Reage

 

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REGIONAL VT & NEW ENGLAND BDSM EVENT & ANNOUNCEMENT LIST

****This list has been updated with most of the organized BDSM groups in the New England area plus one time events at the bottom.

 

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ROSE & THORN BDSM SOCIAL EVENTS

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For more info contact me: BurlVTSub@aol.com

UPCOMING DATES (Usually the third Saturday of the month):

Saturday December 15th Holiday party & BDSM Gift Swap (Richmond). This is a RED themed party - please wear a red accountrement.

SUSPENSION BONDAGE DEMO - The demonstration this month will be uplifting - literally! Eric, of the Northern Maine Kinksters, and Mistress Ren, leader of CUFSmaine, return to R&T to demonstrate suspension bondage!

Suspension bondage involves the use of extensive rope work to support the body and then suspending the submissive from hooks or a pulley. Aside from the beautiful aesthetics, suspension bondage allows the submissive the feeling of 'floating free' and almost always puts them into a headspace unrivaled by any other BDSM activity. We hope you will join us and experience this beautiful and intimate occasion.

BDSM GIFT SWAP - Get some new cool BDSM toys for your collection at our BDSM Gift Swap. Please bring one UNWRAPPED item of BDSM paraphernalia. Could be something new you don't want (maybe you got it as a gift, or don't like it or whatever). "Used" items are okay if they're in excellent condition and are NOT intimate items. Intimate items are anything used in relation to bodily fluids (dildos, used whips, etc.). Non-intimate items include such things as handcuffs, nice silk scarves, etc.

You can also purchase something if you wish, but please don't spend more than $20 or so (unless you really want to!). Imagos in Colchester has recently expanded and now has one aisle of relatively low cost BDSM items. You can call them for directions at 893-2977 or check their website http://www.imagoxxx.com/imago.html. We have a list of local BDSM vendors as well - just e-mail Sadie for a copy.

Need some ideas? How about: Small floggers, whips, or paddles, lingerie, scarves, a box of latex-alternative gloves (for those allergic to latex), Velcro handcuffs, blindfold, fabric mask, BDSM jewelry or keyrings. Variety of colored/scented/flavored condoms, lubricants, books. Don't forget the hardware store: rope, chains & clips, O-rings. Tack shops have low-priced crops & other goodies. Sexy foods such as truffles, a can of whipped cream, etc. (non-perishable items only).

 

Saturday January 19th New Year's Party (Burlington) - This is a PURPLE themed party - please wear a purple accountrement.

Saturday February 16th Dinner OUT at a restaurant. Please wear evening dress - nothing too wild please!

Saturday March 16th St. Patrick's Day Party - This is a GREEN themed party - please wear a green accountrement.

Saturday April 20th

Saturday May 18th

Saturday June 15th - THIRD anniversary party!

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GENERAL BDSM ANNOUNCEMENTS

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BDSM ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES SURVEY - Your Input Requested from Jack McGeorge

www.dss.sexresearch.org

Important Survey - Your input is needed! Reliable information describing our attitudes and practices regarding dominance, submission, slavery and service will help dispel myths and misunderstandings. Jack McGeorge is ready to begin phase II of his research with an on-line questionnaire. Please help this important work by visiting www.dss.sexresearch.org and completing the 2001 Questionnaire Regarding Dominance, Submission and Service.

The goal of this survey is to use the collected data to improve my understanding of both the people who incorporate dominance and submission (D/s) into their relationships and the role of personal service in those relationships. Increasing the longevity of D/s relationships by improving the quality of D/s related instruction is my long-term goal. This questionnaire and the subsequent survey are anonymous and all information provided will be treated with the utmost confidence.

Thank you,

Jack McGeorge

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BDSM RECIPES & POEMS WANTED!

sa_kinah@hotmail.com

sa`kinah of ALU in Maine is in the process of developing a BDSM recipe book for people in the lifestyle. She welcomes recipes and poems from Dom/mes, Subs, Switches and everyone in between! Please send your materials to her directly. (I'd also love to run your poetry in this newsletter if you want to copy me on the poetry - thanks!)

For more information on Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU) contact:

www.geocities.com/aluorg

email: info@alur.xohost.com

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FETISH PHOTOGRAPHY NOW AVAILABLE FROM OUR VERY OWN MICHAEL

Michael from the Rose & Thorn core group is now doing fetish (and regular) photography in his home studio. E-mail him directly for a sample of his work. Because he is relatively new to portrait/fetish photography (although not photography in general) he is offering a special deal to Rose & Thorn newsletter readers. While he is building up his portfolio he will be doing the sitting at cost. The set he did with Sadie cost less than $50.

You can contact him directly at: fletch1107@adelphia.net

 

 

 

 

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OTHER GROUPS & EVENTS NEARBY

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****This data is for informational purposes only. It does not imply endorsement by Rose & Thorn of any organization listed here, nor does R&T accept any liability for activities held.

 

 

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POWER EXCHANGE OF NEW ENGLAND (PENE) - formerly LEATHERBOUND NORTHEAST)

For more info contact: trishnh@hotmail.com

http://welcome.to/PENE

Power Exchange of New England (Pansexual). Monthly munches, socials, and special events. Serving southern NH and VT. Munches every second Tuesday at the Elm City Pub and Brewery in the Colony Mill Marketplace, 222 West Street, Keene NH. Social nights out the last Friday of each month at the Rainbow Cattle Co. Rt. 5 East Dummerston VT. from 8:30-? casual dress.

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WEST LEBANON, NH BDSM MUNCH

For more info contact: UVMunch@valley.net

Munch is at the Powerhouse Mall in West Lebanon from 2:00 to 4:30 PM.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/UVMunch/

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WHITE MOUNTAINS GROUP

For more info contact: UVMunch@valley.net

Munches in North Conway, NH on Nov 10th as well as in Lincoln/No. Woodstock in the future

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D/S-NEWHAMPSHIRE MUNCH

hizangel_BB@ds-newhampshire.org

www.ds-newhampshire.org

Held in Londonderry - Second Saturday of each month, 11:30 AM to 3:00 PM, at WhipperSnappers restaurant on Route 102 in Londonderry, NH. Hosted by the founders of the #D/s-NewHampshire IRC channel on irc.bondage.com.

For details, subscribe to the e-mail list at:

Ds-NewHampshire-subscribe@yahoogroups.com,

or visit

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Ds-ewHampshire

 

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BOUND FOR PLEASURE

heather@bfp.com

New England BDSM social group that firmly believes in Safe, Sane and Consensual activities that will reflect on the B/D, D/S, S/M, Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Communities in a healthy and positive light.

Munches at North Shore Mall , Peabody MA

4th Wednesday of every month

6:30 PM to closing

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WESTERN MASSACHUSETTS POWER EXCHANGE

MsAlexandra@wmpe.org

413-782-8829

www.wmpe.org

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CUFSmaine

CUFSmaine@aol.com

www.cufsmaine.org

Mistress Ren or Master LesVoiles

A free support, social, and education group located in Southern and Central Maine, serving Maine and New England. Our primary base of operations is Portland, Maine. We offer: monthly Munch meetings at a local restaurant/banquet center the last Sunday of every month, a monthly Newsletter, available both online (free) and via snail mail (yearly subscription to cover printing and postage costs). Also, CUFSmaine hosts bi-monthly (sometimes monthly) classes and seminars at a location safe for newbies. CUFSmaine sponsors the annual Maine B & D Shopping Spree each fall in Portland, Maine, as well as the summer time Kinky Scavenger Hunt.

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***NEW GROUP!

Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU)

www.geocities.com/aluorg

email: info@alur.xohost.com

ALU meets every third Saturday of the month at Augustine's in Lewiston Maine. This is a social group for people of alternative lifestyles who wish

to unite and meet others.

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CENTRAL MAINE ALLIANCE

CMA@CentralMaineAlliance.org

BDSM social & educational organization serving Maine. Our munches are held the 2nd Saturday of each month, with the place alternating between Augusta and Auburn. In addition we hold classes and other special events throughout the year, and also provide a monthly newsletter, which comes out the 4th Saturday of each month.

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UNITED LEATHERFOLK OF CT

a non-profit BDSM support/social group.

http://lauragoodwin.org

laura@lauragoodwin.org

United Leatherfolk of CT (Pansexual) founded in March 1990, is a non-profit support and social group for BDSM men and women of all orientations. Intimate and very friendly. Not public. No fees. Contact me via email if you wish to be considered for membership. This club is especially welcoming and helpful for singles and newbies, but enthusiasts at all levels of development will be comfortable with us. Don't be alone in a crowd: join ULC for the personal attention you need. Email Laura Goodwin for membership info.

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CONNECTICUT BDSM MUNCH

New Haven, CT

Fleursss@aol.com

http://www.wildfleurs.com/munch

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WESTCHESTER DOM/ME S SUB

Master.Dyh@verizon.net

Northern Suburbs of NYC, primarily Westchester, Munches on the first Sunday of every month at 5 PM. Play parties on the third Friday of the month.

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ROCHESTER KINK SOCIETY

http://www.rks-society.com/events.htm

BDSM organization located in Rochester, NY. Our Mission: To provide BDSM and Kink-Oriented persons with a safe space for learning, practicing, and discussing BDSM and related kink. Holding monthly munches, meetings, demonstrations, workshops, playparties and online discussions.

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NEW ENGLAND LEATHER ALLIANCE

NELA is an organization dedicated to making a safe place in the world for all leather/fetishes/SM people through education, advocacy, and charitable giving. They have an excellent quarterly newsletter, and are well known throughout New England as one of our premier organizations. Membership is only $10 (what a deal!) which give you free entry to the Fetish Flea Market in Boston.

www.nla-newengland.org

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BOSTON DUNGEON SOCIETY

www.bostondungeon.org

bds-staff@bdsbbs.com

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MASTERS AND SLAVES TOGETHER (MasT)

www.mast.net/boston

BosDsCpl@aol.com

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PADDLEBORO DEFENSE LEAGUE

www.paddleboro.com

info@paddleboro.com

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CANADA

DSSG - Dominant/submissive Support Group

http://www.dssg.org

dssg@home.com

Munches. workshops, Kinky Craft Fairs & play parties in Hamilton, Ontario

Discussion group in Toronto, Ontario

 

 

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ONE TIME BDSM EVENTS

WICKED WEEKEND! - AN INVITATION FOR A BDSM WEEKEND IN NEW HAMPSHIRE

www.geocities.com/aluorg

By angel at free_angel@hotmail.com and sakinah at sa_kinah@hotmail.com

You asked for it, you got it! An overnight getaway is on here in New England and you're invited to come and join the wicked fun! This is a weekend of fun for those who wish to enjoy the company of others in alternative lifestyles. AYUH, the focus is on fun, food, and fetish!

This fun filled weekend will be held on February 23-24, 2002 from 1 PM to 1 PM in the foothills of New Hampshire. (specifics will be given to paid guests one week before the event)Wicked Weekend will be arriving just in time to ward off those winter blues.

The equipment will be provided by Lock, Stock and Bondage and ALUR INC. Standard dungeon equipment like St. Andrews cross, racks, spanking benches, and stocks will be available. All you need to have fun is your toy bag and a deep desire to be completely surrounded by kinky people! There will be dungeon monitors available to help make your personal play area as enjoyable for you as possible.

This is a perfect holiday gift idea for that kinky person on your list. The fee is $75.00 per person. We will supply dinner, a buffet of snacks throughout the evening, breakfast the next morning, and a toy filled dungeon in a spacious, clean, and kink friendly lodging facility. What more could you ask for? Sign up now because space is limited. This is the first of many weekend retreats ALUR, Inc will be putting on. Join us as we celebrate our premiere Wicked Weekend.

Payment can be made either with a money order sent to ALUR P.O. Box 8012 Lewiston, Maine 04243-8012 or through Paypal Please send money to ALURofMaine@hotmail.com (When sending payment in please be sure to specify a valid email address or way we can contact you.) There is a short and simple registration form that must be filled out before you can enter the Wicked Weekend.

The retreat site is handicap accessible. Please be sure to inform us if you have any special needs so we may accommodate you in any way we possibly can.

Information can be found at www.geocities.com/aluorg Specific questions can be directed to angel at free_angel@hotmail.com or sakinah at sa_kinah@hotmail.com

 

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REQUEST COPIES OF OUR MOST POPULAR ARTICLES! Just e-mail Sadie with the one you want.

ARTICLES BY SUBMISSIVE SADIE:

How to Get Involved in the BDSM Lifestyle

Mistress Sadie Speaks

Submissive Sadie's Top Ten Tips for Dating Doms

Sadie Comes Out and So Much More!

I've Been Invited To A Play Party! Should I go?

FAQ about Rose & Thorn

What Every Novice Dom/me Should Have In Their Toy Bag - A list from our members

OTHER POPULAR COLUMNS

Play Party Etiquette by Mistress Ren of CUFSmaine

SM Vs. Abuse

Ten Rules for Dominants

Chastity Belts by Altairboy

BDSM LISTS AND RESOURCES

R&T Member's Favorite Websites

Consignment shops in Northern Vermont (for dressing BDSM)

Stores & shops that sell BDSM Paraphernalia in Northern Vermont

BDSM Symbol patches & other items

Books

Movies

Songs

POEMS

By Cynthia, Flirt, Bruce, Josephine, Anne & Amber

ARTICLES IN THE GROUP LEADER SERIES - BY SUBMISSIVE SADIE

The Trials and Tribulations… and Joys, of Running Rose & Thorn of Vermont. (And Tips on How To Start Your Own Group!)

How to Screen Guests for a BDSM Organization

Managing A Large E-Mail Addresses List – Tips & Tricks for Peace of Mind

 

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PUBLISHING POLICY

Articles must be BDSM related

Non Fiction only (except for poetry and humor). This is an educational forum.

We must have copyright permission to reprint articles.

We will not edit your work so please make sure it is proofread. Please note if I can use your name and e-mail address so readers can respond to you directly.

We will treat you with courtesy and respect and we expect the same. Do not expect us to run your information if you are acting like a jerk.

We only run listings for established BDSM groups that are in alignment with our values. We do not list private play parties.

If you have a concern about the newsletter, please write us about it and include suggestions for fixing the problem. Insults with no corresponding suggestions will not be responded to. For example - one reader accused the newsletter of being "CyberDomme." That may or may not be true, as many of the writers are indeed women, but it did not suggest any solutions (such as this male writer offering to write some articles.)