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FEATURED ARTICLES IN THIS STEAMING ISSUE: Report on the First Group Leaders in BDSM (GLIB) Meeting- By Submissive Sadie Celebrities On Sex - Humor Report on the First ALU Munch in Maine this past weekend - By Sa Kinah EVENTS NEAR AND SEMI-NEAR The Regional Events Listing ADMINISTRIVIA Request Copies Of Our Most Popular Articles! How To Get Off Or On The Mailing List, Newsletter Policy etc. <><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> LETTERS TO THE EDITOR It was a true pleasure to meet so many people that are willing to learn and grow in the lifestyle. Both Rose & Thorn and the core group can be proud of what they have built. I look forward to visiting with you again in the near future. ~ Eric I. (the speaker at the last R&T event) http://www.geocities.com/demondthrawl Or e-mail him at whinty@hotmail.com I had a wonderful time! I thoroughly enjoyed myself and was delighted at how accepting everyone was. ~ Tara <><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> This is a review of the first Group Leaders in BDSM weekend that happened last month. It was organized by Sadie of Rose & Thorn, and Gayle of PENE. ----------<<>>---------- WEEKEND REPORT ON THE FIRST GROUP LEADERS IN BDSM (GLIB) MEETING FOR NEW ENGLAND By Submissive Sadie of Rose & Thorn, with input from Mistress Ren of CUFSmaine BurlVTSub@AOL.com As I looked around me at this somewhat motley crew of people, I'd never have guessed that these were the leaders of various BDSM groups throughout New England. They were all regular folks, clad in t-shirts and shorts and ratty sneakers, some just waking with their first coffee of the morning and others perky from donuts polished off. Eight hours later at our play party they'd come out in force, in leather, sexy stockings, chains, and Lick-My-Feet pumps - the kind of clothing we all expect to see on BDSM players of the most fashionable caliber. But for that moment we were all there to build connections between our various New England groups, and perhaps build a coalition that would help all of our groups flourish. For that, we needed only our dedication to the larger BDSM community; no PVC necessary. The weekend was organized by Gayle of PENE of New Hampshire and myself of Rose & Thorn of Vermont. Gayle hosted the meetings and several guests in her lovely home in Newport, New Hampshire, complete with a beautiful rural view of the autumn trees just starting to turn golden. Gayle's husband Bill was the Dom Chef du Jour, spoiling us with fabulous chicken a la king for lunch and bar-b-qued steak for dinner. Gayle's wonderful tomato and bacon quiche kept our appetites satisfied and our focus constant all morning. "I had a FANTASTIC time this weekend!" said Ren from CUFSmaine. "Everyone had a great time, the food was fantastic, we all had fun meeting and raising hell! My special thanks go to Gayle and Bill for allowing so many of us to converge upon their lovely home. You are truly wonderful hosts and I think I can speak for everyone when I say you did a great job making us feel at home." Several guests stayed in guest rooms, while others camped in the back yard or stayed at the local motel. The goal of the weekend was not a formal one - but simply to make connections, and friends, with other group leaders. " I thoroughly enjoyed meeting other group leaders." Said HizAngel from D/sNH, "It's nice knowing D/sNH is not the only group in the area who does things the way that work best for them, that there are no 'cookie cutter' patterns to follow. The overall meeting format worked wonderfully, and did help to form a more cohesive community. I walked away refreshed, instilled with a new sense of purpose for my group." Fifteen guests attended from various groups including Rose & Thorn of Vermont; Power Exchange of New England (PENE), the Upper Valley Munch, and D/sNH of New Hampshire; and Coastal United Fetish Society Maine (CUFSmaine), Central Maine Alliance (CMA), and Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU) of Maine. Our groups represented a wide variety of approaches to BDSM communities from strictly BDSM community building groups like Rose & Thorn and the Upper Valley Munch, to Gateway groups like CUFSmaine, and broader alternative lifestyle groups like ALU. Some groups focused on educating the vanilla community and others simply act as a conduit to bring novices into the lifestyle. "I want to thank you for the invitation!" said Angel of ALU, "It was a wonderful time was in agreement with our goal at ALU to 'unite' the BDSM community." What we all had in common was a wish to make connections between our groups and build a coalition that would strengthen all of us. After introducing ourselves and our groups, three speakers presented various topics. I started out with a discussion of ways we could build connections between our groups. Ren of CUFSmaine followed with a well prepared discussion on increasing our visibility as a group of leaders, and Gayle from PENE talked about how can we use our combined leadership to improve the BDSM community overall. Because our states tend to be more rural, we've realized the importance of focusing on the special needs of groups with widespread membership. Ren added that "it was fantastic seeing so many New England groups represented and hearing everyone's opinions, ideas, and thoughts. Finally meeting folks I have long chatted with online was also great!" Some of the ideas we are implementing include developing a collaborative booklet for new leaders on the various type of groups and how they are best managed, creating a form letter that will be signed by all of us to protest negative and biased media coverage of BDSM issues, and using newsletters to reach a large number of scene players. We also discussed the need to utilize the Leaders Listserv as a communication vehicle, visit each other's groups as much as possible, and have bi-yearly leaders meetings. Ren of CUFSmaine presented ideas about how all the leaders in attendance could increase their visibility, individually and as a whole. Some suggestions presented included group leaders being 'out,' if possible, because it would serve to show both the BDSM and vanilla communities that we, practitioners of Alternative Lifestyles, have nothing to be ashamed of. The increased visibility of leaders discussing our lifestyle, advocating safety, and denouncing violence would certainly assist our efforts toward acceptance. "Up until this meeting I thought it was enough just to be helping to run Rose & Thorn," said Michael, "but now I can see that our group is creating change on a larger community level. Once I realized that, I also realized our responsibility not just to our own members, but to the vanilla community in terms of outreach and education. On this note, the importance of contacting local authorities such as the police, social service agencies, and medical personnel was stressed as a means of opening communication channels and offering services if necessary. The idea of a standard written response to the media, which would be signed and implemented by all leaders present, was also discussed and well received. This response, which would state the BDSM/Alternative community's position against violence and non-consensual activities, would be available to all group leaders, and would enable us to speak as one strong voice. The importance of attending BDSM related meetings, functions, get-aways, etc., was also discussed. After all - what better way to make one visible than actively participating! Also, the involvement in regional organizations, such as NELA, and national organizations, such as the Nation Coalition for Sexual Freedom, was recommended for all group leaders. Finally, the importance of leaders serving as role models to group members was emphasized. The actions of leaders are often emulated by members of their groups, and it is up to group leaders to keep in contact with group members, teach them the safe applications of BDSM, and give them a good example to follow. After our conference meeting Saturday afternoon, we relaxed and made merry until the evening when Gayle and Bill hosted a play party including guests from PENE and Rose & Thorn both. Being a carpenter by trade, Bill set up a spectacular variety of homemade BDSM equipment including a St. Andrews Cross, spiderweb, spanking bench and stocks. Our weekend mascot, my stuffed Babar (king of the elephants) turned out to have quite a BDSM streak as he stayed locked into the stocks for quite some time. The play party grew to about 25 guests, many of whom brought interesting and unusual toys. Richard from Rose & Thorn delighted a number of female guests with his suction machine upstairs while various other couples tried out Bill's grand equipment which was spread out over the back yard in the shade of the evening. Fortunately the cool fall weather prevented submissives from suffering any additional tortures from New Hampshire's famous mosquitoes. By Sunday morning we were all sated with conversation and connections, and bid hugs and farewells to whoever was left standing. With plans to have another conference in six months in Maine, everyone left with a sense of a successful weekend completed and having lived up to our group moniker of "GLIB." "I want to thank you for taking the time to put together the GLIB meeting this past weekend," added Angel from CMA, "it was great to finally meet so many new people and have a chance to sit and talk. I hope this is something that will happen on a regular basis." <><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> CELEBRITIES ON SEX "The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision." ~ Lynn Lavner "You know that look women get when they want sex? Me neither." ~ Drew Carey "Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand." ~ Unknown "My cousin is an agoraphobic homosexual, which makes it kind of hard for him to come out of the closet." ~ Bill Kelly "Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night." ~ Woody Allen "What do I know about sex? I'm a married man." ~ Tom Clancy "I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural, wholesome things that money can buy." ~ Steve Martin "Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as meaningless experiences go, it's pretty damned good." ~ Woody Allen "If it weren't for pickpockets I'd have no sex life at all." ~ Rodney Dangerfield "As the French say, there are three sexes-men, women and clergymen." ~ Rev. Sydney Smith "Homosexuality is God's way of insuring that the truly gifted aren't burdened with children." ~ Sam Austin "I can remember when the air was clean and sex was dirty." ~ George Burns "It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married." ~ Matt Barry "Leaving sex to the feminists is like letting your dog vacation at the taxidermist." ~ Camille Paglia "Life is a sexually transmitted disease." ~ Unknown "My kid had sex with your honor student." ~ Bumper Sticker "My sexual preference is not you." ~ T-shirt "Programming is like sex. One mistake and you have to support it for the rest of your life." ~ Michael Sinz "Remember, if you smoke after sex you're doing it too fast." ~ Woody Allen "Sex at age 90 is like trying to shoot pool with a rope." ~ George Burns "Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation. The other eight are unimportant." ~ Henry Miller "There are a number of mechanical devices which increase sexual arousal, particularly in women. Chief among these is the Mercedes-Benz 380SL convertible." ~ P. J. Orourke <><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> REPORT ON THE FIRST ALU MUNCH IN MAINE THIS PAST WEEKEND By Sa Kinah sa_kinah@hotmail.com Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU) is very pleased to announce that yesterday we held our first social and it was a complete success! We had about 25 people show up Augustine's where we all gathered, socialized, laughed and had lots of fun! Even our "Greedy Greeter" learned something new... like new uses for toothpaste. hehe Afterwards, many of us went next door to Chopsticks restaurant and shared great food, stories, laughter and new friends. Back Woods Leather was there, as promised, to show off and sell their fine floggers and canes. What a selection and the quality is absolutely wonderful. Remember folks, if you were there and saw something you liked but couldn't get it yesterday feel free to contact BWL at bkwdsl@prexar.com Their customer service is as stupendous as their products. Don't forget to visit their web site at http://www.angelfire.com/me4/bwleather/ Thanks Back Woods Leather for giving us such fine eye candy to look at, touch, smell and buy for our very own! If you would like to vend your products at an ALU social feel free to contact us at info@alur.xohost.com If you missed the social, don't worry, we'll have more! Each month, on the third Saturday of the month ALU will host a social at Augustine's so we can all unite and enjoy good company. To keep up to date on what is happening with ALU and other organizations you can visit http://alur.xohost.com If you did attend the social, ALU urges you to come back and get to know everyone better. Also, please visit the ALU web site and sign the message board. We would love to hear of your experience at our first social. Our next social will be Oct. 20th from 4-6 PM. We look forward to seeing you and thanks to all those that attended and made the premiere ALU social the success that it was. Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU) http://alur.xohost.com email: info@alur.xohost.com <><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><>
REGIONAL VT & NEW ENGLAND BDSM EVENT LIST ****This list has been updated with most of the organized BDSM groups in the New England area plus one time events at the bottom.
<><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> ROSE & THORN BDSM SOCIAL EVENTS <><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> For more info contact me: BurlVTSub@aol.com UPCOMING DATES: Saturday October 20th (Burlington) - Halloween Party! Wear a costume and win kinky and ghoulish prizes for best BDSM, most outrageous, most creative, and best costumes! Saturday November 17th Thanksgiving Party (Burlington) Saturday December 15th Holiday party & BDSM Gift Swap (Richmond). This is a RED themed party - please wear a red accountrement. Saturday January 19th New Year's Party (Burlington) - This is a PURPLE themed party - please wear a red accountrement. Saturday February 16th Dinner OUT at a restaurant. Please wear evening dress - nothing too wild please!
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****This data is for informational purposes only. It does not imply endorsement by Rose & Thorn of any organization listed here, nor does R&T accept any liability for activities held.
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POWER EXCHANGE OF NEW ENGLAND (PENE) - formerly LEATHERBOUND NORTHEAST) For more info contact: trishnh@hotmail.com http://welcome.to/PENE Power Exchange of New England (Pansexual). Monthly munches, socials, and special events. Serving southern NH and VT. Munches every second Tuesday at the Elm City Pub and Brewery in the Colony Mill Marketplace, 222 West Street, Keene NH. Social nights out the last Friday of each month at the Rainbow Cattle Co. Rt. 5 East Dummerston VT. from 8:30-? casual dress. September 28th Social Night Out in West Lebanon NH - 8-midnight Location to be announced later. October 13th PENE's Halloween Party. Halloween attire desired. Alstead NH October 26th Social Night Out - Rainbow Cattle Co. 8-midnight. November 10th - SPANKSGIVING PARTY... Spanking contest, donations sought to help battered women. ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ WEST LEBANON, NH BDSM MUNCH For more info contact: UVMunch@valley.net Munch is at the Powerhouse Mall in West Lebanon from 2:00 to 4:30 PM. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/UVMunch/ Oct 21st Nov 18th Dec 16th ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ WHITE MOUNTAINS MUNCH *** New Group! For more info contact: Ppmpv@sover.net Location: The Mill at Lincoln, Lincoln NH Millfront Marketplace's food court Route 112 in Lincoln, NH - off Exit #32 on I-93. ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ D/S-NEWHAMPSHIRE MUNCH hizangel_BB@ds-newhampshire.org www.ds-newhampshire.org Held in Londonderry - Second Saturday of each month, 11:30 AM to 3:00 PM, at WhipperSnappers restaurant on Route 102 in Londonderry, NH. Hosted by the founders of the #D/s-NewHampshire IRC channel on irc.bondage.com. For details, subscribe to the e-mail list at: Ds-NewHampshire-subscribe@yahoogroups.com, or visit http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Ds-ewHampshire,
------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ BOUND FOR PLEASURE heather@bfp.com New England BDSM social group that firmly believes in Safe, Sane and Consensual activities that will reflect on the B/D, D/S, S/M, Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Communities in a healthy and positive light. Munches at North Shore Mall , Peabody MA 4th Wednesday of every month 6:30 PM to closing ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ WESTERN MASSACHUSETTS POWER EXCHANGE MsAlexandra@wmpe.org 413-782-8829 www.wmpe.org ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ CUFSmaine CUFSmaine@aol.com www.cufsmaine.org Mistress Ren or Master LesVoiles A free support, social, and education group located in Southern and Central Maine, serving Maine and New England. Our primary base of operations is Portland, Maine. We offer: monthly Munch meetings at a local restaurant/banquet center the last Sunday of every month, a monthly Newsletter, available both online (free) and via snail mail (yearly subscription to cover printing and postage costs). Also, CUFSmaine hosts bi-monthly (sometimes monthly) classes and seminars at a location safe for newbies. CUFSmaine sponsors the annual Maine B & D Shopping Spree each fall in Portland, Maine, as well as the summer time Kinky Scavenger Hunt. ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ ***NEW GROUP! Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU) http://alur.xohost.com email: info@alur.xohost.com ALU meets every third Saturday of the month at Augustine's in Lewiston Maine. This is a social group for people of alternative lifestyles who wish to unite and meet others. ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ CENTRAL MAINE ALLIANCE CMA@CentralMaineAlliance.org BDSM social & educational organization serving Maine. Our munches are held the 2nd Saturday of each month, with the place alternating between Augusta and Auburn. In addition we hold classes and other special events throughout the year, and also provide a monthly newsletter, which comes out the 4th Saturday of each month. ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ UNITED LEATHERFOLK OF CT a non-profit BDSM support/social group. http://lauragoodwin.org laura@lauragoodwin.org United Leatherfolk of CT (Pansexual) founded in March 1990, is a non-profit support and social group for BDSM men and women of all orientations. Intimate and very friendly. Not public. No fees. Contact me via email if you wish to be considered for membership. This club is especially welcoming and helpful for singles and newbies, but enthusiasts at all levels of development will be comfortable with us. Don't be alone in a crowd: join ULC for the personal attention you need. Email Laura Goodwin for membership info. ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ WESTCHESTER DOM/ME S SUB Master.Dyh@verizon.net Northern Suburbs of NYC, primarily Westchester, Munches on the first Sunday of every month at 5 PM. Play parties on the third Friday of the month. ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ ROCHESTER KINK SOCIETY http://www.rks-society.com/events.htm BDSM organization located in Rochester, NY. Our Mission: To provide BDSM and Kink-Oriented persons with a safe space for learning, practicing, and discussing BDSM and related kink. Holding monthly munches, meetings, demonstrations, workshops, playparties and online discussions. ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ NEW ENGLAND LEATHER ALLIANCE NELA is an organization dedicated to making a safe place in the world for all leather/fetishes/SM people through education, advocacy, and charitable giving. They have an excellent quarterly newsletter, and are well known throughout New England as one of our premier organizations. Membership is only $10 (what a deal!) which give you free entry to the Fetish Flea Market in Boston. www.nla-newengland.org ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ BOSTON DUNGEON SOCIETY www.bostondungeon.org bds-staff@bdsbbs.com ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ MASTERS AND SLAVES TOGETHER (MasT) www.mast.net/boston BosDsCpl@aol.com ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ THE NORTHEAST EROTIC SPANKING SOCIETY (NESS/TEP) PO Box 540441 Waltham, MA 02454-0441 ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ PADDLEBORO DEFENSE LEAGUE www.paddleboro.com info@paddleboro.com
<><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> ONE TIME BDSM EVENTS <><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> ***ASK FOR THE R&T MEMBER DISCOUNT! 4TH ANNUAL LET YOUR DESIRES ROAM WEEKEND Friday OCTOBER 19,2001 through Sunday OCTOBER 21, 2001in the Poconos. Hosted by DsDesires Barry & Gina http://www.dsdesires.com 718 729-9166 All inclusive...lodgings, meals, snacks, recreational activities, BDSM activities...and all on resort premises...at an absolutely beautiful time of year. BDSM activities will include Demos/Workshops on Bondage by Master Brent aka PD of Insex, Flogging by Domina Z, Mummification/Sensory Deprivation Play by Mistress Kali of Fetishes Boutique, Hot Wax Play by Barry & Gina, Relationship Workshop by Master Ron & claire. Other activities: Play Auction, 5000 square foot Main Dungeon, Private Equipped Play Rooms, BDSM Games & Prizes, Free Raffle for a Love Swing, Parties, fetish shopping opportunities and more!!! Plus there's: - Large Private Rooms, each with a fireplace and Jacuzzi, cable color TV, phone, coffee maker and refrigerator. - All meals included...Full Country-style Breakfast, Buffet Lunch, 5 course Candlelit Dinner with live piano music, 24 hour coffee and snacks. - Dare-to-Go-Bare Bonfire (we know how much you enjoyed last years!) - Trap Shooting - Golf Driving Range - Hayrides - Nature Trails, Lakes - Tandem Bicycle Riding - Dance Lounge - Bar Lounge - Indoor Heated Pool - Indoor Tennis - Indoor Miniature Golf - Indoor Archery - Indoor Rifle Range - Indoor Bowling - Fitness Room - Game Room and more...some will be surprises!!! Space is limited so register EARLY, our weekends sell out quickly. For full details visit http://www.dsdesires.com/wkend.htm ------------------------------------<<>>------------------------------------ CARTER STEVENS POCONO FALL FLING Nov 9-11 2001 Full details and updates are available on the web at http://www.smnews.com/parties/party-01.htm The Carter Stevens Fall Party in the Poconos is selling out much more quickly than we expected. All the quality of a world class resort and a first class weekend long party with separate areas for Fetish play and spanking only participants. The official confirmed date is November 9-11, 2001. Early arrival and late departure dates are also available at additional costs. We have held the line on price. We are keeping this party at our same low 1998 prices. $550 per couple, $425 per Single male (Subject to Double occupancy), $250 per Single Female (Subject to Double occupancy). Early arrival and late departure also available at extra cost ($80/couple per night including a meal). These prices will never be this low again. Be sure to mention membership in any recognized spanking or Fetish support group to receive a 5% discount on the party weekend. (Make sure you mention if you have attended former Carter Stevens weekends to receive an even bigger discount!)
<><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><> REQUEST COPIES OF OUR MOST POPULAR ARTICLES! Just e-mail Sadie with the one you want. ARTICLES BY SUBMISSIVE SADIE: How to Get Involved in the BDSM Lifestyle Mistress Sadie Speaks Submissive Sadie's Top Ten Tips for Dating Doms Sadie Comes Out and So Much More! I've Been Invited To A Play Party! Should I go? FAQ about Rose & Thorn What Every Novice Dom/me Should Have In Their Toy Bag - A list from our members OTHER POPULAR COLUMNS Play Party Etiquette by Mistress Ren of CUFSmaine SM Vs. Abuse Ten Rules for Dominants Chastity Belts by Altairboy BDSM LISTS AND RESOURCES R&T Member's Favorite Websites Consignment shops in Northern Vermont (for dressing BDSM) Stores & shops that sell BDSM Paraphernalia in Northern Vermont BDSM Symbol patches & other items Books Movies Songs POEMS By Cynthia, Flirt, Bruce, Josephine, Anne & Amber ARTICLES IN THE GROUP LEADER SERIES - BY SUBMISSIVE SADIE The Trials and Tribulations… and Joys, of Running Rose & Thorn of Vermont. (And Tips on How To Start Your Own Group!) How to Screen Guests for a BDSM Organization Managing A Large E-Mail Addresses List – Tips & Tricks for Peace of Mind
ADMINISTRIVIA WANT TO BE OFF THE MAILING LIST? Just let me know, and off you'll be. No hard feelings. (Please remember that we only have one mailing list, so if you don't get this weekly mailing you won't know upcoming event dates.) WANT TO BE **ON** THE MAILING LIST? Are you getting this newsletter forwarded from someone else? Just e-mail burlvtsub@aol.com and we'll put you on the mailing list. It's FREE! SHARE THE WEALTH Feel free to forward this newsletter to any BDSM folk you know. PUBLISHING POLICY Articles must be BDSM related Non Fiction only (except for poetry and humor). This is an educational forum. We must have copyright permission to reprint articles. We will not edit your work so please make sure it is proofread. Please note if I can use your name and e-mail address so readers can respond to you directly. We will treat you with courtesy and respect and we expect the same. Do not expect us to run your information if you are acting like a jerk. We only run listings for established BDSM groups that are in alignment with our values. We do not list private BDSM parties. If you have a concern about the newsletter, please write us about it and include suggestions for fixing the problem. Insults with no corresponding suggestions will not be responded to. For example - one reader accused the newsletter of being "CyberDomme." That may or may not be true, as many of the writers are indeed women, but it did not suggest any solutions (such as this male writer offering to write some articles.)
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