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Auntie
Screamer’s Ten Most Annoying Questions in BDSM and How to Answer Them
Quickly
By Screamer
screamer_girl@hotmail.com
http://www.thescreamergirl.com
Read
the SCENEprofiles Interview with Screamer
Tongue planted firmly in cheek, although… some of this rings quite
true. These are my opinions. If you don't like them, get some of your
own.
Q: What’s the difference between submissive and slave?
A: Perspective
Q: Is it really submission if I like everything he does?
A: Yes, his.
Q: Define Master.
A: No, you define Master. Your definition is the only one that matters
to you anyway.
Q: What’s the significance of a collar?
A: Commitment. The level of commitment isn’t set, that’s between the
people involved.
Q: What’s the difference between real punishment and play punishment?
A: Tone of voice.
Q: What’s the most important thing in a D/s relationship?
A: Laughter.
Q: Can you be 24/7 D/s if you don’t live together?
A: You can’t be 24/7 D/s even if you do live together. Change 24/7 to
"full time", and the answer is yes.
Q: Can I still call myself a submissive if we only do D/s in the
bedroom?
A: Sure. You can call yourself anything you like. But understand that
your definition won’t match some other people’s definitions, and
learn to live with it.
Q: Is there any such thing as a real switch?
A: Yes, but everyone has a preference one way or the other, even if they
don’t know it yet.
Q: Does love mess up a D/s relationship?
A: No, people mess up a D/s relationship. Love can be a factor, but not
a reason.
Bonus question: Is it possible to fall in love over the computer? A:
Yes, but I don’t recommend it. Falling over anything usually means you’ll
end up with bumps and bruises you wouldn’t have found had you been
looking where you were going.
Hope this helps,
Always,
Auntie Screamer
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If you enjoyed this article you might enjoy Sensuous
Sadie's Article
The
Feminist Submissive, and a Spiritual Approach to Surrender
Read Screamer's Article Is
it Really Submission? (if I like everything he does?)
Read the SCENEprofiles interview with Screamer
Read Screamer's Poems
Screamer writes erotica under the pen name Kanthra Adair. Her new book
Screaming Inside is available for $12.50 from Amazon.com:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1893006387/thescreamergi-20/104-5857078-5020762
To Subscribe to Screamer's Yahoo Group: Strictly D/s
(details at end of interview), send an e-mail to: StrictlyDs-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
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